Things Are Not As They Seem.
Last night my wife and I attended my company Christmas
Party. It was a fun evening. Part of the festivities was exchanging gifts
and playing Dirty Santa.
For those of you who haven’t heard of Dirty Santa here are
the rules: Everyone gets a number and
then in turn walks up to the gift table.
Number one opens a gift. Number Two
then gets a choice, take the gift from Number One, or open a new gift from the
table. If Number Two picks a gift from
the table, then Number Three gets a choice, open a gift from the table or take
one of the already opened gifts. If Number
Three takes Number One’s gift, then Number One can take the gift from Number
Two, or go back to the table and open a new gift. The stolen gift can only be stolen three
times, after that the gift can no longer be stolen and has a home. As you can imagine some gifts are more
popular than others.
I didn’t steal a gift, I opened a gift. Someone took pity on me and stole my gift, as
it wasn’t a fit for me. So I took a
tool. Later my tool gift was
stolen. Someone else told my wife which
gift I should open next, so I did.
It was a lump of coal Christmas decoration that said “Naughty”
on it. Well, I am a good sport and
thought, it will make a great conversation piece hanging on the tree. However, one coworker loves to play gags and
such. I knew this and trust my coworker,
but everyone was laughing and having fun, and I guess I did show disappointment
on my face. I tried not to, like I said,
I try to be a good sport about things.
Needless to say, my gift was never stolen again, but when it
was done, my coworker came up to me and said, here, this is the real
present. It was a bucket full of DVD’s
candy, and pop corn, with nifty plastic theater type popcorn containers; enough
for the whole family to fill with popcorn when we decide to watch movies at
home. It was the perfect gift for me,
and for me to share with my family.
Last night’s party illustrated something I’ve thought about
over the years. Things are not what they
appear to be. A lump of coal turned into
a tradition of fun nights with family and friends with home theater
accessories. Life is full of things that
at first look like disasters, but as time goes on turn out to be blessings in
disguise.
I wrecked my car several years ago. Bad deal.
But I now have a better car, one I really enjoy driving, and more
fitting my needs than the car that I wrecked.
Good Deal.
Our friends had their home burn down while they were out of
town for Christmas many years ago. Bad
Deal. However, no one was home, no one
was killed, no one was injured. They
lost everything. They now have a
beautiful new home, filled with new furnishings, new wardrobes, new everything,
a fresh start. Good Deal. Family and friends had photos and were able
to restore a lot of the things lost, true some things can never be recovered,
but the important things, were not lost.
I have a hole in my roof.
Bad deal. Water came in and
damaged a few things. Bad Deal. But now I have to clean things up, and when I
am done, I will have thrown away a lot of junk I’ve been hording over the years
and the place will be cleaner. Good
Deal.
There is a positive and a negative side to most
everything. Happiness depends on how you
look at things. If you try and look for
the positive, you may just find a window into happiness in your own life.
Have a Merry Christmas, and enjoy the holidays. May you find time to spend with family and
friends, and find that silver lining in those storm clouds.
