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Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Attitude. Show all posts

Friday, September 6, 2013

“Put A Little Strut In It”




While visiting my son over labor day weekend I came down with a sore throat, one of those where the inside of your throat is raw pain all the way down the esophagus. It hurt to breath, it hurt to swallow, I couldn’t sleep that night. 

Well, in search of relief I bought a bag of Halls cough drops.  I opened the wrapper and popped the medicated “candy” in my mouth and the wrapper caught my eye.  In a neat black font printed in the middle of the Halls diamond were messages.  I took a closer look and read the following little messages:

Bet on yourself
Put a little strut in it.
Keep your chin up
Elicit a few “wows” today
Hi-five yourself

I smiled.  Yes, I am feeling bad, but it is just a sore throat.  What a neat idea, the medicine helps the throat but the message was there to work on the attitude. Just because you are not feeling your best, doesn’t mean you quit moving forward.  I liked those little motivational messages.  My wife thought I was nuts reading my wrappers every time I took one, but I just thought that was a great idea.

A lot of how we do depends on our own outlook on how things go.  If we feel we will succeed, we usually do.  If you “Know” it is going to fail, most likely it will.  Our mental outlook does a lot to our actual outcomes, and feelings.

That is why I was talking about getting those negative things out of your life.  Get rid of or minimize those voices that constantly tell you that you are not good enough.  Be your own cheerleader.  Just those few little words on a cough drop wrapper made me stop and think about how big the little things really are. 

So whatever you are working on “Bet on yourself” and “Put a little strut in it.”  Your influence is greater than you realize.  

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Skills and Traits for Success




Values, Priorities, Motivation, Attitude, Determination.  Items I’ve blogged about, items I feel help to make you successful.  A winner.  If not that, at least feel better about yourself and your lot in life, or give you things to change your lot in life.

How do you accomplish things?  To accomplish anything it takes skill, and it takes some character traits. 

Today I want to focus a bit on writing.  I love to write.  I would like to think I am good at it, some of you think so, you’ve been following my blog.  For that, thank you. 

However, I would like to publish the life long work I’ve been chipping away at for years.  Although it isn’t ready, and that is another topic. 

I do have an accomplishment.  I have four complete manuscripts.  Four books.  Are they ready for an agent, or an editor, or publication.  Sadly, no.  I do have some people willing to beta read, and I do have a crit partner.  So I am better than I was. 

But to accomplish getting all the words down on paper took a lot of work.  And today I want to list some of the skills or traits needed for that accomplishment.  In the following weeks we can explore each trait a bit more in depth.  For right now I am going to list them, in no particular order, just ten traits that I thought of that helped me get this far in my quest for publication.

1. Creativity
2. Determination
3. Personal Drive
4. Motivation
5. Organization
6. Fearlessness
7. Vision
8. Work Ethic
9. Positive Attitude
10. Problem Solving

I am sure with more thought I could add more items to this list, but these came to mind when I stopped to think about it.  Besides it gives me some focus on more items to blog about.  So in the weeks to come we will explore some of these traits, that did help me with my writing, but with other aspects of my life as well.

Nothing you achieve is due to any one thing, but a collection of many things.  What are some of the skills or traits you’ve used to accomplish things in your life?